56 * Swinging Down Under

Here’s a fascinating and fun interview with C and D from the Swinging Down Under podcast! Set up in my kitchen (because they are Aussies living in Singapore and I’m here in Montreal — so I was kicked out of the studio/master bedroom!)

We talk about misconceptions about swinging, their experiences with swinging, how they got into it. We talk about jealousy and what swinging clubs are like and the swingers community (the lifestyle/LS). We talk about cuckolding, BDSM, hotwifing, polyamory… whewf!

Also listen to some first hand stories about slipping on lube and hitting your head on the ceiling while in a foursome… or that time they had sex in the back of a moving cab in Thailand. Strap yourself in — or get strapped in. This episode is definitely NOT SAFE FOR WORK!

Then stay tuned to the end for a track from friends of the show, Real G3nius! Their track I’m Fine!

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36 * Cathouse! Working at the Love Ranch North Brothel

In this episode I talk with Roxanne Price (@RoxannePriceGFE) (NSFW) who works at the Love Ranch North (@LoveRanchNorth) (NSFW) in Carson Nevada! We talk about how she went from normal small town Texas girl to prostitute in one of the state’s legal brothels owned by Dennis Hof (of HBO’s Cathouse: The Series fame).

I’d like to think that you’ll learn everything you ever wanted to know about that it’s like to be a prostitute in Nevada. I did! You also might come to realize that, in Roxanne’s case at least, many sex workers do in fact choose their work and are very business savvy about it as well.

Regardless of your feelings on the matter — and I know some people have strong ones — I hope this episode will be a window for you on what being a working girl is like for Roxanne at least.

Musical credits:

Waysted by Kromatiks music.

Anybody Here Want To Try My Cabbage? By Maggie Jones – 1925 – DOCUMENT RECORDS

Press My Button (Ring My Bell) – Lil Johnson – 1936 – DOCUMENT RECORDS

“My Girl’s Pussy” – Harry Roy & His Orchestra – 1931

Banana In Your Fruitbasket – Bo Carter – 1931 – DOCUMENT RECORDS

It’s Tight Like That – Clara Smith – 1929 – DOCUMENT RECORDS

Old Habits by Kromatiks music.

All of these titles are used with permission except for “My Girl’s Pussy”, which is understood to be in the Public Domain: https://archive.org/details/HarryRoyAndHisMayfairHotelOrchestra-01-10

I’d like to thank the fine people at DOCUMENT RECORDS for giving me permission to use their music in this episode!



32 * Objectum Sexuality with Amanda Liberty

I’m thrilled to be speaking with the delightful Amanda Liberty about her prior relationship with her drums and flags and her current love for the Statue of Liberty in New York City.

Amanda is objectum sexual. There are very few (I think) people like this in the world, so I am lucky to have gotten in touch with her.

Objectum sexuality (an offshoot of animism) is an orientation where people are romantically attracted to objects which — to them at least — possess sentient qualities (hence the animism). You can learn more about objectum sexuality at the excellent resource website www.objectum-sexuality.org. Here’s an extract:

Sexual orientation is defined as the nature of sexual preference while the prolific definition stands as: the direction of someone’s sexual desire toward people of the opposite gender, people of the same gender, or people of both. This does not include objects.

However, orientation itself is defined as: a complex mental state involving beliefs and feelings and values and dispositions to act in certain ways. This does include objects as we see it.

We love objects on a very significant level and many of us in an intimate way. This feeling is innate. Objectùm-sexual love comes for most in a similar awakening as other sexualities at the start of puberty. This is often followed by an acute awareness that we do not relate to peers due to the source of projected feelings. Often objectùm-sexual people feel outcast or pressured by mainstream sexuality with a helpless feeling that we cannot change what comes so naturally to us.

Amanda appeared in the documentary Animism: People Who Love Objects. (https://peoplewholoveobjects.wordpress.com/) Here is the trailer:


There is a rather good reference to OS in the Keys n Krates music video Save Me. (https://youtu.be/jh5HPD26heE) Perhaps not strictly correct in all ways, videos like this bring OS into the mainstream consciousness.

The exchange about objectophilia is from How I Met Your Mother. You can find that episode here (https://youtu.be/lHOgBr5xZoY).

You can find Amanda’s lovely rendition of the Broadway musical piece Huddled Masses,  on YouTube (https://youtu.be/2KRhpWJTo5U)!

Intro music: Waysted by Kromatiks Music (https://soundcloud.com/kromatiks-music/waysted-soundcloud)

Outro music: Old Habbits by Kromatiks Music (https://soundcloud.com/kromatiks-music/old-habbits)

Voice over music: Oriental Pacific from the album Galaxsea by Lunar Dunes (https://4zerorecords.bandcamp.com/album/galaxsea)

14 * What It’s Like to be in Feminist Porn

Back in episode 2, I had feminist porn director Laura Glass (blog) on the show to talk about her upcoming movie, The Color of Her Desire. 

This week, I’m happy to have the two actors who star in this film – under their porn pseudonyms: Booty Plunder and Emilia Bronte. Emilia also wrote the script for the film.

We talk about the filming itself; sex positivity; the effects an early exposure to today’s porn may have on people – particularly men; how wearing sailor suits may signify your sexual arousal (all hands on deck); dressing like pirates; dressing like faeries; LARPing; and what it’s like standing in a room with 40 strangers watching yourself masturbate on a big screen for the very first time.

I’m pretty sure there’s probably more there – the conversation was very broad!

It goes without saying that the topics of this podcast are sexual and it’s likely you don’t want to listen to this with children, your mom, your grandmother – etc.

You’ll also hear a short segment from the excellent podcast Poorly SummarizedI strongly suggest you go check these guys out. I listen to a select few podcasts regularly and this is one of them.

(Image not from movie.)

02 * Feminist Porn

I talk with porn director and producer Laura Glass about feminist pornography. She will be premiering her new erotic film ‘The Color of Her Desire’ at the ‘Color of Desire’ art show art show on Feb 13th.

Color of Desire: goo.gl/CLLbTE
Laura’s Twitter: twitter.com/LauraGlass64
Laura’s Blog: lunaerotica.wordpress.com/

Laura sent the following list of corrections after the interview:

The Bechdel test is actually (same information, differently divided):

1. It has to have at least two [named] women in it
2. Who talk to each other
3. About something besides a man

That adult feature movie company’s name is New Sensations, not Sweet Sensations.

Intro Music: “Erotica” by New Waver (goo.gl/VcS1oM)
Outro Music: “Behind The Seas” by Possimiste (goo.gl/A8jG7o)